Category Archives: Commentary

Reading the Writing on the Wall

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Maybe you’ve been at it in your relationship for a while, and now things have been feeling a little stale. Perhaps you’re wondering if it’s time for you to move on, or if your cougar is thinking of moving on herself.

Well, if you are wondering if she’s having some of these thoughts, we have 10 things you ought to pay attention to in order to figure it out.

What are some of these signs?

Well, a sure sign is if she simply shows no interest in your sex life at all. You can remember the beginning of your relationship together, I’m sure. There was sex all the time…in so many different positions as well as in so many different places. And, there were great finishes between the two of you.

However, if it feels like it’s been a while since the two of you have really connected, well…you might want to pay attention to this.

Another issue that may come up is simply the lack of time spent together. If you were inseparable in the beginning, perhaps now it looks as if you are each going your own way.

These are both signs that things may be up with this relationship.

Check out the full article for more: 10 signs your relationship is over

Sugar Mama Cougars

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If you’ve been in the cougar dating world and scene for some time, you may have come across friends as well as cougars themselves who are the classic sugar mama.

What’s a sugar mama? A sugar mama is a self-sustaining cougar who has no problems with money, nor any issues buying her pup things, nor any issue paying for all and every meal.

May sound like a good idea, right? Well, you need to hold on there for a second, because if you are going to get involved with a sugar mama there are a few things you might want to be aware of.

First off, you are playing by her rules. When she’s paying for everything and taking care of you, there’s little say you are going to have in the matter. You are not on equal terms. She’s definitely the type of person who knows what she wants, how she wants it, and how to get it. And she’s not used to having people say no to her.

So when you engage with a cougar like that, you are essentially entering into her world and playing by her rules.

If you want to find out a bit more what it’s like to be with a sugar mama, take a look at today’s article.

Read the full article here: 3 tips for cubs who want to date sugar mamas

Those Pearly Whites

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Who doesn’t love a great smile? It’s one of the first things we see when people walk through the door. You flash those pearly whites and people take notice.

But what happens when you flash that smile and the coffee, cigarettes and Italian food you regularly and consistently eat shows a dull smile?

It doesn’t matter what continent you live on, a nice smile is always appreciated. But we have so many things that we eat and ingest and smoke on a daily basis that will corrode our teeth.

So what can we do? Well, the one thing we can do is whiten our teeth. Teeth whitening has been around for a while and it has a proven track record. There are a lot of dentists who actually specialize in the practice these days and have pretty much perfected it.

However, teeth whitening with a dentist can be a bit of a pricey issue. So are there any home options for people who are on a budget? For sure…there are many over the counter products you can get that will help you in your quest for a brighter smile.

In addition, you may want to try a few homeopathic remedies, as well.

For information on all of these options, take a look at today’s article.

Read the full article here: 10 tips to whiten your teeth

Get Over Those Jitters

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First dates are always nerve wracking. You’ve got everything going on from “what should I wear” to “does this cologne smell funky?”

On top of that, when you actually get out on that first date you need to deal with conversation topics and keeping things moving. This is all a recipe for disaster if you lose your cool and struggle from the beginning.

You remember what that’s like, right? The sweat begins to form in the underarms and across the forehead, you can feel it trickle down the spine of your back, and there’s more “umms” to preface each sentence and end each sentence then there are words in the sentence itself.

Well, if you’ve been there, and let’s be honest…who hasn’t been there? Well, if you’ve been there then we have some good news. Here’s a bit of help for you.

We have 7 tips to keep you going through that date and avoid all the “umms” and “ahhs” that want to creep into your conversation.

You’ll learn all sorts of things here, like how to keep that conversation going and what to talk about. So check it out and have some fun.

Read the full article here: 7 tips to help you with first date nerves

It’s a Dirty Job

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…but somebody has to do it. Listen to Mike Rowe talk about his former show, Dirty Jobs, and things he learned about life and living. What’s this have to do with dating cougars, you ask?

Well, for one thing it has to do with the ever so present need to mature. And this is a great talk on that topic of always being able to learn and to grow through our experiences. As we grow we become more viable dating material.

And that is one reason why this talk becomes so very important to us. We need to grow into datable men. Have a look.

 

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Habits of Strong Couples

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Keeping a relationship going is difficult. It can take a lot of work of both individual parts, and there’s a lot of meeting each other half way in all that is done.

But if you are invested in your relationship, then you will most certainly want to keep it going strong. But how do you do that?

Well, one way of keeping your relationship strong is by disconnecting. What do we mean?

You need to disconnect and unplug from all of that social media that is calling your name. When you pick up that phone or tablet and lose yourself in Facebook, you are in fact disconnecting from your relationship with the person right next to you.

You need to disconnect from the media and reconnect with that person.

So how about doing a once a week disconnect hike, or coffee, or outing? This is really easily done. You just set your phone to the ringer so that all that comes through are phone calls. That way if an emergency is happening you can still be reached. But other than that, leave that phone in that pocket and get lost in each others eyes all over again.

Read the full article here: 10 habits of couples in strong and healthy relationships

The Rules of Sex

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Sex is fun. It’s at the top of the list for many of you when it comes to your dating lives. Sex with cougars can be even more fun, because they know exactly what they want and how they want it. And they know how to give.

So there’s a win-win situation going on here for everybody.

But there are also a few things you need to keep in mind regarding sex. One of the most important is that though you may have a great first encounter, if you are with someone for a while you need to know that sex is not an x-rated movie.

You may think it is, but it’s not. You may even try to do certain things you have seen, but you may want to think twice about all of that before you do.

So take some time to review the following article, because it will remind you that sex is more about communication than just meeting your own needs. Learn to communicate with your bodies and enjoy a fulfillment way better than anything you have seen on a screen.

Read the full article here: 3 sex rules you need to follow

Don’t Ruin the Moment

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“You look amazing! Have you had work done?”

I’m sure you have thought those words before…and perhaps you have even uttered them. Maybe you have seen a friend utter them and you have seen the results. What were they?

Yup…crash and burn.

It might be true. She might look amazing…for her age. Yeah, even if you leave it unsaid, you thought it. And you know what, when she hears you make that statement she’ll know you thought it as well.

If there was ever a way to put a quick end to a conversation faster than anything else, it’s probably that.

Never mention a cougars age nor appearance…initially. She will take it as an offense and think that ultimately you are making a comment about her age.

If you want the night to go on for you and her, then let it pass. Let it be. Don’t go there. She’ll appreciate it…so much so that maybe the night will end in an even happier manner.

So be careful how you speak and what you say…because even the unsaid things can heard loud and clear.

Read the full article here: 5 things not to say to an older woman

Where to Meet The Woman of Your Dreams

Looking for a lovely cougar to date and possibly settle down with for life? Where do you find such a person? You can look online through dating sites or go to speed dating nights. These might be fun. But there are other ways of doing it, as well.

Some of the best places to meet a person are in the common areas. Take for example the local coffee shop. A lot of times people will go to simply hang out and spend time there to relax. Oftentimes you can encounter somebody enjoying a bit of quiet time to themselves as they unwind from a long day at work.

Such mental relaxation is healthy, and it also makes for a healthy opportunity for you to chat them up and open a line of conversation with them.

Another great place to meet people at is the gym. As they are there to enjoy a good workout, you can get to know them over time and perhaps have a healthy (in more ways than one) relationship with them that will blossom into even more.

So look for other avenues of meeting people besides the bar and internet.

Read the full article here: 10 places to find your spring fling

What to Say to That Sexy Cougar

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Ever have a hard time figuring out how to talk to that sexy cougar? Do you find yourself flubbing the opening line and thus closing the door on any possible chance you had with her?

Well, first off, maybe what you need to learn is how to lead in with her. If you are starting out by asking her how old she is, well then…you are in the wrong dating game.

One thing a cougar is not looking for is to get carded about her age. In fact, it should be obvious from the start that age is the last of the concerns here.

So don’t bother asking, because it definitely is the wrong line to dive in with.

You may not want to ask her what she does for a living, either. There are a couple of reasons. For one thing, she may not want to reveal to you anything personal about herself. Perhaps she just isn’t there for that reason. The other issue is she may think you are fishing for clues on how much money she makes, and this is definitely not something you want, either.

So, then, what do you do? Well, take a look at these tips to help you with that opening and everything else.

Read the full article here: 12 tips for older women dating younger men