Author Archives: Erik

Are You Avoiding the Ladies?

Have you been avoiding the ladies, lately? What is causing you to do this? A bad break up or a certain type of insecurity? Well, the  thing is you need to get over it and not let it throw you off of your game. Why? Because there are ladies out there waiting for you to ask them out.

Don’t let these excuses hold you back.

Read the full article here: 9 excuses you use to avoid women

Grow a Cocktail Garden

Want to impress the ladies? Well, one a way to do it is by mixing them some pretty great cocktails. There’s nothing like being a man who knows his way around a cocktail. But if you really want to impress them, why don’t you go that extra step and grow your own herbs for cocktail mixers. Don’t know where to start? Take a look at this impressive article to get you pointed in the right direction.

Read the full article here: Grow a cocktail garden

Dating Offline In An Online World

romantic-grunge-design_z1H2kEOOcolor

Dating in today’s world is easy and complicated all rolled into one. These days people simply have to open up an app on their phones and swipe either left or right. I mean really, it doesn’t get any easier than this, does it?

You can even choose, if you so wish, to go the longer route and create an online profile at a matchmaking dating site. These sites have long surveys that you take, detailed profiles you create, and action selfies you can post for people to get an idea of who you are and what you’re all about.

But what’s missing in all of this? How about the simple idea of organically meeting somebody? What do I mean by this? Sites and apps can take all the fun out of dating. What happened to those ¬†good old days of meeting somebody in the coffee shop or at the gym?

We have invested so much in these technological wonders that we have taken the one thing that is truly important and mesmerizing about meeting a significant other: the spark. It’s that chance encounter that you hear about, and sometimes, if you’re lucky, have an experience with.

So get off your computer and smart phone, and get out there and meet somebody today.

 

Read the full article here: Where to meet cougars offline

Live in the Here and Now

Resized_8924115_s_color

 

Living in the past is not healthy…for anyone involved. It’s not healthy for you, if you are doing it, and it’s not healthy for the person you are currently with.

When we live in the past we are living in a constant place of regret. We are analyzing our movements, actions, and reactions to things that happened long ago. We are living out the “what if” when the “what if” is not a possibility at all.

In addition, we are dragging down the person beside us because they too, are living out the past with us. We force them to. We constantly compare ourselves to them and we compare them to our past. This is not fair for anybody who is with us. It means we are constantly comparing them to somebody else, and not seeing them for who they are.

Such an existence leads to you, the person being in misery, as well as the person you are with to be in misery as well.

We need to learn to let go and move on from the past. This is the only healthy thing we can do in order to have a healthy relationship. Take a look at today’s article to learn just how to do this.

Read the full article here: How living in the past fractures your relationships

Dating Sites

We all know them and we all use them. Dating sites are part of the modern day dating game. But at the same time, we definitely do not like them all that much. Take a look at this story that breaks down what we don’t like and what we need to see in a dating site. Perhaps it will help you use yours even better.

Read the full article here: Online Dating

Dating and Divorce

Chances are, if you are dating older women then you are going to come across many divorced women. There’s nothing wrong with this at all…however, you do need to understand a bit of what you’re getting yourself into. Take a look at these 10 things a divorced individual learned about herself when she got back into the dating world. What can you learn and how can you approach?

Read the full article here: 10 key things I learned about dating after divorce

Is She Looking A Little Older These Days?

Resized_10388022_s_bw

 

Has that lovely cougar been looking a bit older to you in the past few weeks or months? Has your eye begun to wander again, ever so casually?

Well, this is a serious issue. An issue that will definitely get bigger and bigger if you do not address it as quickly as possible. What is the issue? Things in your relationship have hit a road block. Passion is difficult to maintain, yet it is a key concept to any relationship.

So what you must do is ask yourself why your attention and passion has been waning as of late? Are there problems in your communication? Do you find yourself at an impasse with regard to the direction of your relationship?

One thing to keep in mind is that your age differences may eventually come into play in the midst of your relationship. As you get older and mature, you may have differences in terms of the direction you are thinking about going in life. These differences may not coincide with where your cougar is at in all of this.

At the end of the day, then, the best route for you to go is to be open in honest in your relationship.

Read the full article here: 4 ways to keep your attraction from waning